Ok… ok ok ok. So, in one of my last blogs, I told everyone about how I am working towards my mental health by seeing a therapist…. Well, friends, I’ve done a lot of soul searching in the last few weeks, and I have something to proclaim… and, I will start with saying sorry for all the curse words, but it’s the only way to properly express my feelings… so here it goes… wait for it, wait for it…
“I’M A FUCKING SEXY BEAST!”
Yep. What’s the you said, Andrea? Did you really just say that? Really… Yes really. I said it. And this is why… Let’s face it there are so many blog post out there that tell you how you should feel about your body or how you shouldn’t feel about your body and I’m just here to tell you that it’s okay to feel what you feel you don’t need to read a blog post telling you it’s okay to feel sad, or it’s okay to love your body, or it’s okay to be big, or it’s okay to be small, or it’s okay to just be you and feel whatever the hell you feel if you’re feeling fucking sexy then you’re fucking sexy if you’re feeling not good and like a marshmallow then that’s what you’re feeling. It sucks but we all feel it even on our best days, we end up criticizing ourselves somehow it’s just who we are as humans it’s what we do. I mean amen for all of the bloggers and all of the posts about loving your body for what it is and all of that kind of stuff because those posts are very true but where are the posts that just sit there and tell you, it’s ok to feel this way. Sure, am I being hypercritical because I’ve written before that everyone should love themselves for who they are and not care about society… sure… But now, I’m sitting here saying, we shouldn’t be telling you how to feel, how to look, how to act, we should just be telling you that who you are, and WHAT YOU FEEL, is real, and it’s part of life.
Right now, I’m feeling sexy, fucking sexy, and who knows how long that will last, because I’m sure I will look in the mirror and notice a hair coming out of the side of my face, or my double chin showing up too much, but IT’S GOING TO HAPPEN! And guess what, it’s ok. You know, we can inspire, we can motivate, but we’re not inside your heads…. We aren’t the ones living inside your body every single day going through what you go through everyone is different and everyone goes through different things and how you look and how you feel is a big part of that.
Whether you are big, small, tall, short, perfect bodied, fluffy, whatever you want to call it, everyone is fighting some sort of fight, and it’s not our job to tell you what’s right and what’s wrong.. it’s our job to tell you that what you are feeling is REAL and it’s part of life… What I can tell you, is you shouldn’t forget, that no matter what, you TOO are a sexy beast, and you should 100% embrace that, WHEN YOU WANT TO. Try to be healthy, and try to maintain a good relationship with your mental health… but everything else, we can’t tell you what to do, how to feel, all we can do is be there for you…
Maybe this was a totally weird post, but I just have been reading so much lately about people telling me how I should look at my body, how I should feel, how I should act, what’s going to happen if I don’t do this or that, and yes, that’s the nature of the internet…. but shit, you know what’s real? Our lives, our heads, our mentality…. so think about that.. think about HOW YOU feel, and then think about what YOU want, and don’t worry about what people say, YOU control your happiness and your life, and at the end of the day, YOU are sexy, and you need to remind yourselves of that!
TOP 5 REASONS YOU SHOULD FEEL SEXY WHEN YOU WANT!
5. DO YOU GET UP EVERY MORNING….. Then you’re sexy.
4. DO YOU BREATHE….. Then you’re sexy.
3. DO YOU TALK…. Then you’re sexy.
2. DO YOU GET SAD SOMETIMES… Then you’re sexy.
1. DO YOU GET HAPPY SOMETIMES… Then you’re sexy.
Oh, and I get it, that word sexy is also sometimes a negative word, but you know what, so is beautiful sometimes, so is every word… so yes, I’m using that word, because just like beautiful, i think it encompasses everything, and a strong sense of feeling badass about yourself… Ok I’m done I swear.